Thank You Goes A Long Way!
Maybe it was because of the pandemic, maybe can blame it on the upbringing of some or maybe even the sheer absence of manners. The art of gratitude and a simple “thank you” is few and far between coming from interactions with the young and the old. I have always believed a “Thank You” holds an incredible amount of power, it truly does go a long way as I would tell my brothers when they were younger.
Beyond just being polite both “Thank You” and gratitude builds lasting relationships, creates a ripple effect of positivity. I realize we are all moving through life so quickly it is easy to overlook the small things that may not seem too important. “Thank You” is that small gesture of gratitude that carries far beyond the simple act provided. My daddy always taught me, “love people,” use things” When you lead with this mindset, you take time to acknowledge someone's effort, time, or assistance, you send a clear message that their contribution matters. This type of “Thank You” and gratitude isn’t limited to what is done for us but things that are given to us, opportunity, love, friendship, relationship etc. Our ability to live this lifestyle leads to a deeper sense of connection and mutual respect for those around you. This lifestyle allow others know you value them and appreciate their presence in your life.
I will never forget years ago it was the simple “Thank You” I longed to hear when working with a team, in a odd way the thank you meant more to me, it drove me to continue to do the work I was passionate about. I have worked on so many different types of teams that lacked the presence of thank you and gratitude. The lack of the thank you and gratitude impacted the people on the team in negative ways. The idea of being seen, understood and acknowledged with a simple, Thank you seemed to hit the heart of the people on the team. Leading with gratitude and “thank you” can literally uplift the spirit of a downtrodden person, a person merely looking for light at the end of the tunnel. Hearing those words invigorates a person that moves the person to share that kindness and gratitude with another.
Your outlook of gratitude can shift your perspective and environment. Incorporating the practice of expressing gratitude in your life doesn't require grand gestures or elaborate words. It's the sincerity behind the "thank you" that truly matters.
In our lives we need to lead with gratitude, including the ability to say Thank You. Here are some take aways:
Be Specific: When expressing gratitude, be specific about what you're thankful for. This shows that you've genuinely noticed and appreciated the effort or action.
Timing Matters: Don't delay your expressions of gratitude. Whether it's in response to an email, after a meeting, or in everyday conversations, timely appreciation feels more genuine.
Make it Personal: Tailor your expressions of gratitude to the individual. The simple act of saying "thank you" can ground us in the present moment. It serves as a reminder to acknowledge the positive aspects of our lives and the people who contribute to them.
Take the time today to begin the practice of gratitude both personally and your interactions with others. Our thank you and gratitude not only uplift others it where kindness and appreciation will flourish. Start today with your “thank you” and your gratitude being apart of your life daily in hopes to spread positivity.